If you’re newly engaged, one of the first big decisions you'll make is how you want to get married. Do you want the big, traditional wedding surrounded by loved ones—or are you dreaming of something a little quieter, more personal, and maybe even a bit adventurous?

Welcome to the world of eloping vs traditional weddings. Let’s explore the differences, benefits, and how to decide which one truly fits your love story.

What Is Eloping?

You’ve probably heard the term tossed around, but what is eloping today? Spoiler alert: it’s not just a secret trip to Vegas (unless that’s your thing!).

Modern elopements are intentional, deeply meaningful celebrations that focus on the couple. There’s no big guest list or Pinterest pressure—just the two of you (and maybe your photographer), exchanging vows somewhere that feels just right.

The Difference Between Eloping and Marriage

Here’s an important clarification: eloping is not a replacement for marriage—it’s a way to get married.

Marriage is the legal contract that binds you.
Eloping is the format or style of your wedding day.

So, when people ask about the difference between eloping and marriage, it’s really about the experience, not the commitment.

Why Couples Choose to Elope

More couples are asking themselves: Should we elope instead of a wedding? And honestly? There are plenty of great reasons why:

More Intentional: Without a packed timeline or hundreds of eyes on you, you can focus on your connection.
Less Stress: No table charts. No $5,000 flower bill. No Aunt Karen's unsolicited playlist suggestions.
More Freedom: Say your vows on a mountaintop, a beach, or the city streets you fell in love on.

If you're wondering how to elope instead of a wedding, it can be as simple as:

Choosing a meaningful location
Hiring a photographer you love
Getting the legal stuff handled (license, officiant, etc.)
Crafting a ceremony that feels right for you

Traditional Weddings: The Classic Route

Of course, traditional weddings still have their place—and for many couples, they’re the dream.

A chance to gather everyone you love in one place
Cultural or religious significance
Dancing, food, and celebration

Traditional weddings are great for couples who envision a big event, want a formal atmosphere, or just love the idea of throwing a party.

What Is an Elopement Ceremony Like?

You might be thinking: Okay, but what is an elopement ceremony actually like?

Imagine writing your own vows. Holding hands in the golden hour light. Maybe you’re barefoot on a cliffside, or walking through the woods in fall foliage. It’s quiet, intentional, and all about you two.

With the right photographer (hi, I’d love to help!), your elopement can still feel luxurious, romantic, and yes—Pinterest-worthy.

Which One Is Right for You?

The choice between a wedding or elopement is deeply personal. There’s no right or wrong—only what feels aligned with your values, your relationship, and your vision for your day.

Want a middle ground? Many couples are combining both: eloping first, then throwing a small celebration or dinner party later. The best of both worlds.

Final Thoughts

Whether you’re leaning toward a big celebration or planning to say “I do” with just the trees and a camera as your witnesses, your wedding should reflect your story. And if you're dreaming of capturing that love—whether it’s an elopement or a full wedding—I'm here to tell it through photos that feel as real as your connection.

Ready to chat about how we can document your day? Contact me here!